This week, I’m reflecting on Marriage After God’s Heart. I find myself leaning into God’s heart, praying deeply for our country, for our families, for our children, and for every person who hasn’t accepted Jesus. 

I lift up those who know God but have distanced themselves, believing they are too wise, self-sufficient, or consumed by the world’s accolades. I pray that their hearts will soften, that they might rediscover the beauty of living fully with and for Him. And I continue to pray fervently for our marriages, with the hope that this message will inspire and touch the hearts of both husbands and wives.

Everything flows through God and exists for His purposes. Our spouses are among His most precious gifts to us—given out of His deep love. They are our “helpmates,” a perfect design from the beginning, a reflection of His divine plan.
Genesis 2:18 reminds us:
“Then the Lord God said, ‘It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper who is just right for him.’”
And in verse 23, we see Adam’s joyful declaration:
“At last!” the man exclaimed.
“This one is bone from my bone,
and flesh from my flesh!
She will be called ‘woman,’
because she was taken from ‘man.’”

It all began with a man and a woman, walking with God in perfect unity. But even in that closeness, sin entered the picture. For our marriages to thrive, we must return to a place of integrity—living with sincerity, truthfulness, and uprightness. Integrity is a daily act of love, a decision we make within the framework of marriage.

Integrity is the first and most powerful way we show our spouse that we love them—through actions, not just words. It is a choice we make every single day, weaving it into the fabric of our marriage. But this begins with a heart turned toward our Savior, and a willingness to invite the Holy Spirit to move within us, to guide us, and to make our love stronger and truer each day. Integrity isn’t just a principle—it’s a way of life that shapes the love we give and receive.

In marriage, honor shows through respect, love, transparency, and trustworthiness. It’s about being open and free from the secrets that erode love. When we commit to these principles, God blesses our families and strengthens our bond. Choosing to build a Godly marriage is not just a decision—it’s a daily commitment. Every single day, we must choose love, especially when faced with challenges like emotional distance, crises, the chaos of life, or the temptations of the world that try to tear at our unity, our bond, and our trust. But we stand strong, rooted in God’s love and grace, knowing that nothing can break the foundation of a marriage built on Him. Together, we fight for each other, for our trust, and for the sacred bond that holds us. It’s bold, it’s fierce, and it’s driven by a love that is unshakable.

The enemy seeks opportunities to drive a wedge between you and your spouse, but by staying anchored in God’s truth and keeping your focus on your covenant with Him, you protect your marriage. Let us yearn to treat one another with love and respect, standing firm in the grace and integrity that reflect God’s design for us.

Emotional distance can take many forms, and it is a serious threat to your marriage. It creates the space the enemy craves—an opening to drive a barrier between you and your spouse. It shifts your focus away from your sacred covenant with God and each other, planting seeds of distraction and doubt. These seemingly small moments, these crumbs, can lead you down a path of sin rather than one of truthfulness, integrity, and faithfulness.
Guard your heart, your marriage, and your relationship with God fiercely. Choose daily to walk in His truth and protect the bond He has designed for you both.

God, in His infinite mercy, has given us hope—even in the midst of tragedy and destruction that can shake the foundation of our lives.

To rescue each of us, Jesus bore the weight of unimaginable pain and sacrifice. “He was pierced for our transgressions; He was crushed for our iniquities; upon Him was the chastisement that brought us peace, and with His wounds we are healed.” (Isaiah 53:5)

This weekend, I had the opportunity to speak with someone about trust after betrayal—how hard it is to rebuild after being betrayed by those closest to us. For me, that betrayal came from my parents. For others, it might be a spouse, a best friend, a sibling, or a partner. 

Betrayal inflicts a wound that cuts to the very core of our being. It’s a soul-deep pain that etches scars on the heart, reshaping how we see ourselves and others, while binding us in chains to this world that can feel almost impossible to break. It shakes our belief systems, challenges our capacity to love, and without healing, it can leave us trapped—unable to trust again.

In this broken world, none of us are immune to betrayal. It is a soul-deep wound, a pain that whispers lies, telling us trust is no longer possible. Hold tightly to the HOPE of Jesus. He knows this pain intimately; betrayed by the very ones He came to save. Betrayal was one of the wounds He bore on His way to the cross—a scar He redeemed and defeated.

Jesus’ sacrifice wasn’t just for the sins of the world; it was for the pain, the heartbreak, and the brokenness we endure. “Worthy is the Lamb who was slain, to receive power and wealth and wisdom and might and honor and glory and blessing!” (Revelation 5:12)

Through Him, there is healing. Through Him, trust can be restored—not because people are perfect, but because our hope rests in the One who is. Let Him carry your hurt and show you the freedom and peace found only in His love. 

A marriage after God’s heart boldly embraces His redemptive love, trusting Him to heal the deepest wounds and restore what feels irreparably lost—even when it seems impossible. 

When fear and doubt try to take root, we can stand unshakable in His promise:
“When I am afraid, I put my trust in You. In God, whose word I praise, in God I trust; I shall not be afraid. What can flesh do to me?” (Psalm 56:3-4)

Let His truth be your unwavering anchor, knowing that with God, there is always hope—even in the darkest moments. There is always redemption, even in the shattered pieces of betrayal. We are called to trust His plan, confident that even when it feels like the end, God has a restoration plan—a redemptive plan. And it may very well be the marriage that was always part of His perfect will. A marriage after God’s heart.