Sunday Morning Coffee, Covenant & Grace – God of Legacy


Honoring Bill Williams


Reflection


What I don’t think anyone fully understood at the time was how deeply we loved the homes we were already in. My brother said something this week, on the way to Bill Williams’ visitation, that I don’t think I had ever heard before: “I loved my foster home too.” His words stopped me, because they echoed exactly what I carried in my own heart.

I couldn’t imagine walking up the holler from the bus drop-off and not seeing my foster mom waiting on the porch, or hearing her call my name, or knowing supper was waiting inside. I couldn’t imagine the nights without the familiar rhythm of being tucked into bed at dark, only to wake before dawn to the same steady patterns of life. That house was more than walls and a roof — it was my sanctuary. For the first time in my young life, I felt safe. Protected. Cared for.

And my siblings felt the same. Each of us, scattered in different homes, had finally found a sense of belonging after years of trauma and loss. We wanted to be together — oh, how we longed for that — but we didn’t want to lose the families who had taken us in, the people who had loved us like their own. At twelve years old, that tension felt unbearable. My heart was torn in two: one half clinging desperately to the home I already knew, and the other half aching for the brothers and sisters I longed to be with again.

Looking back, I see now that even our foster families were part of God’s provision. He gave us love and safety in places where we had once only known fear. Those homes became the stepping stones that carried us to the family He had waiting, the ones who would gather us all under one roof.

When I watch the old video clip that aired on television, I see my 12-year-old self, and it’s almost too painful to bear. I wish I could step back into that moment, wrap her in my arms, and tell her, “It’s going to be okay.” I wish I could whisper that the love she shared with her foster mom would never be taken away. That Fred and Diane would make sure those bonds were honored and kept alive. That the love she carried would last a lifetime.

Because I can still remember it — the way my foster mom held my hand, brushed my hair, corrected me when I needed it, and gently led me back to bed when nightmares caused me to wander in my sleep. She was a shelter in the middle of my storm, a steady presence who gave me what trauma had stolen: safety, nurture, and care. For all the damage done in those early years, she was one of God’s ways of showing me healing. That kind of love leaves a legacy, and it never leaves you.

The psalmist wrote, “When my father and my mother forsake me, then the Lord will take care of me” (Psalm 27:10 NKJV). We lived that verse. God used foster parents to protect us, Bill Williams to give us a voice, and Fred and Diane to welcome us home. His provision was not abstract — it was personal, tangible, and life-changing.


The Legacy Connection


Journaling Prompts

  • Where has God asked us to leave what was safe to step into something greater?
  • What does it mean for our family and our generations to be grafted into the family of God?
  • How can we carry forward the legacy of love we’ve received so it ripples into others’ lives?
  • In what ways do we see Christ’s life, Spirit, and inheritance flowing through us because we’ve been grafted into Him?

Prayer


Closing Thought

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